How are you feeling about the division of labor at home?
A) Mostly ok. B) Like resentment’s-a-brewing. C) Over it.
We’ve been there. no matter your starting point, FAIR PLAY CAN HELP.
Fair Play is a time-saving, anxiety-reducing, and resentment-prevention system
that offers couples a completely new way to divvy up domestic responsibilities.
HOW DOES FAIR PLAY WORK?
internalize the framework
Fair Play is rooted in four fundamentals and internalizing the framework is critical to avoiding common pitfalls.
1. All time is created equal.
2. Reclaim your right to be interesting.
3. Establish your shared values and standards.
4. Don’t keep score.
BUILD YOUR DECK
Fair Play is built around customizing a 100-card deck, with cards broken down into four suits. 1. Daily Grinds (like the Dishes or Laundry) 2. Caregiving (like Medical Appointments or Kids Clothing) 3. Magic (like Adult Friendships or Holidays) 4. Out (like Travel and Calendar Keeping)
Communicate shared values and expectations.
Stop competing over who does it best! Fair Play is not about delegating, micromanaging, or “doing chores.” This system is about clarifying values, improving communication strategies, and establishing mutually agreed upon expectations for your household!
Boost Efficiency + Regain your time!
Because, it is possible to have a fulfilling, respectful, and balanced partnership and time to yourself – while having little kids – and jobs! And research shows that when couples perceive a more equitable division of labor they are way happier and less likely to divorce.